Death Care

Death is with us all the time —

in the loss, transitions, and liminal spaces we are always navigating.

I’ve been there with you as you navigated losing a parent.

I’ve helped you adjust to a new reality that didn’t include the love of your life.

I’ve been there to scatter your dog’s ashes with you on his favorite beach.

I’ve been by your side as you walked the coals of spiritual death.

I’ve held your loved one’s hand as they left their body at end of life.

My death care practice is a tapestry that weaves together:

  • Bedside Support

    Sitting with your loved one as they approach their final breath

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  • Urgent Grief Care

    For those experiencing abrupt or unexpected loss

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  • Death Side of the Moon

    Monthly group session shepherding energetic death and renewal

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  • Home Funeral Stories

    Friends join my new podcast to share their home-funeral stories

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  • Resources

    Holistic death- and grief-care resources

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Bedside Support

Los Angeles, California

I’m here to be with you and your loved one as they die — to be a servant of Death. To guide and support your loved one in their journey. And to assist you in learning to care for your dying.

We may have days or weeks to prepare, or only a few moments. We’ll work with what we have. This could involve: arranging the space (whether it’s home or a medical facility) to look, sound, and feel the way your loved one desires for their passing. Creating rituals together. Talking your loved one through death anxiety. Offering energy work and relaxing bodywork. Giving respite support for you, the caregiver. Sitting vigil and supporting your loved one at every step of the labor process of active dying.

If you’re interested in bedside support, for yourself or for a loved one, you can schedule a free 30-minute consultation below.

If your need is urgent, please call or text: ‪(818) 452-3789‬. You can call or text this number at any hour of the day — I will call you back as soon as I can.

Our first 30-minute phone or Zoom call is free. I will let you know on this first call how I can support you going forward, and what my rates are.

Urgent Grief Care

When loss is sudden, traumatic, accidental, or violent… I am here to offer remote support. This support can be emotional, energetic, and pragmatic. The format can look a few different ways — I will tailor a package to your situation.

If your need is urgent, please call or text: (818) 452-3789‬. You can call or text this number at any hour of the day — I will call you back as soon as I can.

If your need is not time-sensitive, please schedule a free 30-minute consultation below.

Our first 30-minute phone or Zoom call is free. I will let you know on this first call how I can support you going forward, and what my rates are.

Death Side of the Moon

I periodically offer this group container which bridges energy work and death care. This is my favorite offering! It’s a little bit of everything that I do.

Learn to let stagnant aspects of you die, to make space for what you’re yearning to embody. At Death Side of the Moon, three of us dive deep into the shamanic life-death-life cycle and learn how to more deeply surrender in our lives with fluidity and ease. I offer energy work to both participants in turn to initiate the experiential, embodied connection with the death cycle.

Death Side of the Moon happens at the end of the lunar cycle, just before New Moon: a perfect moment for cleansing and releasing.

Next Death Side of the Moon: TBD

Cost: $160

Additional Resources

“Jane led me to profound reflections on my relationship with death…

…especially when it concerns the people I love most. I would recommend her offering to anyone who wants to experience the scintillating liminality inherent in daily life. I believe I’ll experience deeper connection with myself and those around me in the time to come as a result of the reflections Jane prompted.”

- Matt Bunday, Death Side of the Moon attendee